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F*ck Bucket Lists

So there’s this thing.  A term of art that apparently everyone (who’s anyone) knows what it means and its relative import (very) in the scheme of things.  There’s even a mediocre-to-bad movie I cannot bring myself to watch. When did this become a thing?  How did this become a thing?  It wasn’t a thing when …

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True Story: Married not Once, but Twice, to a Dying Woman

This is a story of lesbians in love.  It is also one facet of the jewel story of my sister-in-law’s sister, Jill Johnson-Young.  I hope that I got all the details right, but I might not have –  the heart of the story remains true. While caring for her life-partner-turned-wife-anulled-by-the-f*cking-homophobic-system-called-Prop8-eventually-turned-wife-again as she suffered from a …

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